人與人之間進到內圈
最直接的一支:被讓進內室的是「一個人」——他知道你不對外說的事,你也知道他的。
close, of friendship · adjective · C2
Having a very close friendship, so that you know each other well and can share private thoughts and feelings.
親密
這個拼法底下其實是2個不同的字,意思沒有關係, 只是長得一樣。下面分開列出來。跳到 close, of friendship · hint, imply
唸法不同同樣的拼法,這個字的唸法跟另一個不一樣。/ˈɪntəmət/
A picture worth holding: being let all the way inside. Not standing in the doorway making polite talk, but sitting in the innermost room where a person keeps what they don't show the public. Whatever is intimate has crossed that line — a friend, a fact, a small candlelit restaurant, or two bodies.
From Latin intimus "innermost", the superlative of interior — literally the most inside thing there is. Latin intimare meant to bring something into that inner place, or to make it familiar.
來自拉丁文 intimus「最裡面的」,是 interior(內部的)的最高級——字面上就是「最深處的那個」。動詞 intimō 的意思是「把某物帶進最裡面/使之熟悉」。所以這個字從一開始講的就不是感情濃度,而是空間位置:有沒有進到最裡面那一層。現代英語每一個用法都還踩在這個「最內側」的畫面上,這也是為什麼它同時能講房間、講友誼、講知識、講身體。
Wiktionary, "intimate": from Latin intimātus, participle of intimō, from intimus ("inmost, innermost"), superlative of interior.
Four branches
人與人之間進到內圈
最直接的一支:被讓進內室的是「一個人」——他知道你不對外說的事,你也知道他的。
close, of friendship · adjective · C2
Having a very close friendship, so that you know each other well and can share private thoughts and feelings.
親密
不對外的私密內容
被讓進內室的是「資訊」:那些人們原本收在裡面、不會攤在外面給人看的細節。
private, personal · adjective · C2
Relating to very private or personal things, especially feelings, thoughts, or details of a close relationship that most people keep to themselves.
私密
空間讓人放鬆的近
被讓進內室的是「你這個客人」:地方小、光線暗、桌子靠得近,那種空間本身就把人放進了一個私人的圈子裡。
cozy, comfortable · adjective · C2
Private and friendly in a way that makes you feel comfortable, used about a place, a meal, or the feeling in a room.
溫馨
身體上的親密
最裡面那一層,換成了身體:這是人最不對外開放的部分,所以英語也用同一個字。
sexual · adjective · C2
Relating to sex, especially to physical closeness between two people.
親密(性)
A second word, same spelling
唸法不同同樣的拼法,這個字的唸法跟另一個不一樣。/ˈɪntɪmeɪt/
Same Latin root, different word: this one is the verb intimare — to bring something inside, to slip it into the other person's mind rather than lay it on the table. The picture is a hint that never becomes a statement: you make them understand without ever saying it out loud.
From Latin intimare "to put or bring into, to make familiar", from intimus "innermost" — the adjective describes being inside; the verb describes putting something in.
來自拉丁文 intimāre「把…放進去、使熟悉」,字根同樣是 intimus「最裡面的」。形容詞講的是「已經在裡面」的狀態,動詞講的是「把東西送進去」這個動作——送進去的是一個意思,而且是繞過明說這條路送進去的。法語的 intimer 也是同一支。
Wiktionary, "intimate" (Etymology 3, verb): from Latin intimātus, from intimō ("to put or bring into, to make familiar"); cognate with French intimer.
以下是外部詞典記錄的用法,原文照列,我們還沒有寫成教學內容。上面的說明才是我們自己寫的;有些用法可能上面已經講過了。
intimateadj詞源 1/ˈɪn.tɪ.mət/
Closely acquainted; familiar.
Personal; private.
Pertaining to sex organs or underwear.
Pertaining to sexual acts or a sexual relationship.
Pertaining to details that require great familiarity to know.
Very finely mixed.
intimatenoun詞源 2/ˈɪn.tɪ.mət/
A very close friend.
Women's underwear, sleepwear, or lingerie, especially offered for sale in a store.
intimateverb詞源 3/ˈɪn.tɪ.meɪt/
To suggest or disclose (something) discreetly.
To notify.
資料來源:英文維基詞典 English Wiktionary(CC BY-SA 4.0)。 原文照列,未經改寫。