核心畫面

Think of confide as handing something over into a pair of hands you have chosen. You are holding something you do not want everyone to have — a worry, a plan, a piece of bad news — and instead of putting it down in public you give it to one person and let go. The whole weight of the word sits in that choice: not who is nearby, but who you trust. Once the picture is hands rather than words, the second, formal use follows easily, because hands can hold money, papers or the care of a shop just as well as a secret.

可以把 confide 想成「交到一雙你挑過的手上」。你手裡有一樣不想讓大家碰的東西:一個煩惱、一個打算、一個壞消息更多收起可以把 confide 想成「交到一雙你挑過的手上」。你手裡有一樣不想讓大家碰的東西:一個煩惱、一個打算、一個壞消息。你沒有把它放在公開的地方,而是交給一個人,然後放手。這個字的重量全在那個「挑」上——不是誰剛好在旁邊,而是你信誰。一旦畫面從「講話」換成「交出去」,第二個比較正式的意思就很好接了。因為那雙手一樣可以接住錢、文件,或一家店的照顧。

From the word’s history

The source entry traces confide to Latin confīdere, from con- ('together') plus fidēre ('to trust'), a doublet of faith and fidelity. Trust is literally inside the word, which is why both English uses — telling a secret and handing over something valuable — turn on the same thing.

詞源資料把 confide 追到拉丁文 confīdere:con-(一起)加上 fidēre(信任),並說它和 faith、fidelity 同源。信任這件事就寫在字裡面。這也解釋了英文裡的兩個用法為什麼會長在一起:說出秘密,和交出貴重的東西,靠的都是同一件事。

Wiktionary entry for confide (kaikki extract supplied in this packet: kaikki:3f6f69a190036ae4:1127888814)

Two branches

把心裡的事交出去

核心畫面本身:交出去的是心裡的東西。

verb · B2

To tell someone you trust about something private, worrying or personal, because you believe they will keep it to themselves.

吐露;傾訴

把貴重的東西交出去

同一雙手,換了東西。這次放進去的不是秘密,而是錢、文件,或一份需要有人接住的責任。

verb · C1

To put something you value — money, papers, a job, the care of someone — into another person's hands, trusting them to look after it or deal with it properly.

託付

原始詞典資料4 筆記錄

以下是外部詞典記錄的用法,原文照列,我們還沒有寫成教學內容。上面的說明才是我們自己寫的;有些用法可能上面已經講過了。

confideverb/kənˈfaɪd/

  • 1

    archaicTo have confidence in someone.

    • I confide in her judgement in this matter.
    • You can confide in him doing the right thing.
  • 2

    To have confidence in someone.

    • I could no longer keep this secret alone; I had to confide in my brother.
    • She confided in me about her plan to rob the bank.
  • 3

    datedTo entrust (something) to the responsibility of someone.

    • I confide this mission to you alone.
  • 4

    To say (something) in confidence.

    • After several drinks, I confided my problems to the barman.
    • She confided that her marriage had been in trouble for some time.

資料來源:英文維基詞典 English WiktionaryCC BY-SA 4.0)。 原文照列,未經改寫。