只剩形式那一面
核心畫面裡的兩樣東西——真的在意,跟照場合的規矩來——一旦分開,只留下後面那一半,polite 就變成在描述「形式上做到了」。它不再保證裡面有多少真心,而是在指那層做得很對的外殼。
socially correct, not sincere · adjective · A2
Used about conversation, remarks, or interest that people show because it is socially correct, even when they may not fully mean it.
客套的;表面客氣的