核心畫面

Picture someone about to say something, and in the half-second before they speak they smooth the edges off it: they add please, they wait for their turn, they say sorry as they squeeze past. Polite is that smoothing — the small adjustments a person makes so the other person is not bumped. Two things sit inside the word from the start: care about how the other person feels, and knowing the local rules for showing it. Most of the time those two travel together; the rest of the word's meanings appear when they come apart.

可以想成一個人開口前的那半秒,把話的稜角先磨掉:加一句 please、等別人講完再講、要從別人身邊擠過去時先說一聲 更多收起可以想成一個人開口前的那半秒,把話的稜角先磨掉:加一句 please、等別人講完再講、要從別人身邊擠過去時先說一聲 sorry。polite 就像那個「磨掉稜角」的動作——為了不撞到對方而做的那些小調整。這個字裡從一開始就有兩樣東西:在意對方的感受,以及知道在這個場合要怎麼表現出來。多數時候這兩件事是綁在一起的;polite 其他的意思,就是在它們分開的時候冒出來的。

From the picture

只剩形式那一面

核心畫面裡的兩樣東西——真的在意,跟照場合的規矩來——一旦分開,只留下後面那一半,polite 就變成在描述「形式上做到了」。它不再保證裡面有多少真心,而是在指那層做得很對的外殼。

socially correct, not sincere · adjective · A2

Used about conversation, remarks, or interest that people show because it is socially correct, even when they may not fully mean it.

客套的;表面客氣的

Also in this word

well-mannered · adjective · A2

Behaving or speaking in a careful, kind way that fits the social situation and shows you care about other people's feelings.

有禮貌的

原始詞典資料4 筆記錄

以下是外部詞典記錄的用法,原文照列,我們還沒有寫成教學內容。上面的說明才是我們自己寫的;有些用法可能上面已經講過了。

Politename

  • 1

    A surname.

politeadj/pəˈlaɪt/

  • 1

    Well-mannered, civilized.

    • It's not polite to use a mobile phone in a restaurant.
    • Try and be polite to Auntie Maria for once.
  • 2

    obsoleteSmooth, polished, burnished.

    • rays of light […]falling on […]a polite surface

politeverb/pəˈlaɪt/

  • 1

    obsoleteTo polish; to refine; to render polite.

    • those exercises plied, which polite men's spirits

資料來源:英文維基詞典 English WiktionaryCC BY-SA 4.0)。 原文照列,未經改寫。