核心畫面

One way to picture it: turning to someone and letting them see you are hurt or let down by what they did — blame carried in sadness rather than in shouting.

你轉過頭看著某個人,讓他知道「你這樣做,我很失望」。這不是拍桌子的那種罵——reproach 的溫度比較低,帶著受傷更多收起你轉過頭看著某個人,讓他知道「你這樣做,我很失望」。這不是拍桌子的那種罵——reproach 的溫度比較低,帶著受傷和惋惜:我本來以為你不會這樣。它可以只是一個眼神、一句輕輕的話,但對方接收到的訊息很清楚:你讓我失望了。也因為這個「失望」的成分,reproach 通常出現在關係比較近、或說話者對對方本來有期待的場合。

From the word’s history

From Old French reprochier, traced to a Vulgar Latin form built on prope "near" — the idea of bringing a fault back near to someone, holding it up close to their face.

來自古法文 reprochier,一般追到通俗拉丁文以 prope(靠近)為底的形式:把某人的過錯「拿回來、湊到他面前」。這個「把錯攤到你眼前」的動作,正是今天 reproach 那種當面、近距離、讓你不得不看的責備感。

Wiktionary: reproach — from Old French reprochier; Online Etymology Dictionary traces it to Vulgar Latin *repropiare, from Latin prope "near"

Three branches

責備的動作

動詞這一支就是核心畫面在動作中的樣子:把失望攤到對方(或自己)面前。

reproach, verb, gently rebuke · verb · C2

To tell someone they have done something wrong, in a way that shows you are sad or disappointed, not only angry.

責備

責備這件事、這句話

名詞這一支是同一個畫面被凝結下來:那份失望本身(不可數),或說出口的那一句(可數)。

reproach, noun, blame or disapproval · noun · C2

Blame, or the feeling that you are not pleased with what someone did. It often shows in a look or in the way a person speaks.

責備

值得被責備的程度

從「責備」再往外一步:不看誰在責備,而看某件事「該不該挨這份責備」——挨得起、挨不起,就成了評價的尺。

beyond reproach · noun · C2

If a person or their behaviour is above or beyond reproach, it is so good that no one can fairly find fault with it.

無可指摘

原始詞典資料5 筆記錄

以下是外部詞典記錄的用法,原文照列,我們還沒有寫成教學內容。上面的說明才是我們自己寫的;有些用法可能上面已經講過了。

reproachnoun/ɹɪˈpɹəʊtʃ/

  • 1

    A mild rebuke, or an implied criticism.

    • My father made no reproach in his letters and only took notice of my science by inquiring into my occupations more particularly than before.
  • 2

    Disgrace or shame.

  • 3

    An object of scorn.

reproachverb/ɹɪˈpɹəʊtʃ/

  • 1

    To criticize or rebuke (someone).

    • if ye be reproached for the name of Christ
    • this new commer, Shame, There sit not, and reproach us as unclean.
  • 2

    To disgrace, or bring shame upon.

    • I thought your marriage fit; else imputation, / For that he knew you, might reproach your life.

資料來源:英文維基詞典 English WiktionaryCC BY-SA 4.0)。 原文照列,未經改寫。