核心畫面

Picture a duty tied around someone so that one path is closed off: the rule, the contract, the situation leaves them no real choice. English then turns the same tie into — doing what you were asked, and the very phrases people use when they ask or thank.

可以想成:有一條「該做」的線綁在人身上,讓某個選項變得不能不做——規定、合約、當下的處境都可能是那條線。有意思的是,更多收起可以想成:有一條「該做」的線綁在人身上,讓某個選項變得不能不做——規定、合約、當下的處境都可能是那條線。有意思的是,英文把同一條線轉成了禮貌:對方開口請你做,你答應了,也是 oblige;而最客氣的請託和道謝說法,同樣是從這個字來的。這個字整體偏正式,日常口語裡多半會換成 have to 或 help out。

From the picture

順著對方的請求去做

同樣一條「你來要求、我就去做」的線,只是這裡不是規定綁的,而是自己願意接下來的。因為是自願,語氣反而變得客氣、甚至有點紳士味。

do a favor · verb · B2

To do something that someone has asked you to do, especially to help or please them.

樂意幫忙;效勞

客氣的請託與道謝(固定說法)

英文的客套常常靠「把自己說成欠對方的一方」來完成:你若幫了我,我就欠你這份情。這一支的兩個說法都不能拆開理解,要整句記。

I'd be obliged if... · verb · C1

Used in the phrase I'd be obliged if… to ask someone politely to do something.

煩請;勞駕(若能……將感激)

Also in this word

be obliged to · verb · B2

If you are obliged to do something, you have to do it because a rule, a duty, or the situation makes it necessary.

被迫;有義務

原始詞典資料3 筆記錄

以下是外部詞典記錄的用法,原文照列,我們還沒有寫成教學內容。上面的說明才是我們自己寫的;有些用法可能上面已經講過了。

obligeverb/əˈblaɪd͡ʒ/

  • 1

    To constrain someone by force or by social, moral or legal means.

    • Your carelessness obliges firmness on my part.
    • I am obliged to report to the police station every week.
  • 2

    To do (someone) a service or favour (hence, originally, creating an obligation).

    • He obliged me by not parking his car in the drive.
    • The singer obliged(us) with an encore.
  • 3

    To cause somebody to feel indebted.

    • I am much obliged to you for your recent help.

資料來源:英文維基詞典 English WiktionaryCC BY-SA 4.0)。 原文照列,未經改寫。