核心畫面

One way to hold this word: a line that used to run between you and someone, and is now dead. The people have not disappeared. The is still your , the number is still in your phone — nobody calls. What makes estranged heavy is exactly that the closeness is still on record while the contact has stopped, so a familiar person has turned into a stranger. English then runs the same dead line between a person and a thing: a hometown, a company, a team you gave your childhood to.

「estranged」可以想成一條本來接著的線,現在斷了電。人並沒有消失。哥哥還是哥哥,號碼還在手機裡——只是沒有人更多收起「estranged」可以想成一條本來接著的線,現在斷了電。人並沒有消失。哥哥還是哥哥,號碼還在手機裡——只是沒有人打。這個字之所以重,就是因為「親近」還留在紀錄上,往來卻已經停住,所以熟悉的人變成了陌生人。後來英文把同一條斷掉的線,也拉到人跟事物之間:一個家鄉、一間公司、一項從小打到大的運動。

From the word’s history

The source describes this word as meaning 'having become a stranger, of one who formerly was close', and lists it as the past participle of the verb estrange. So the stranger inside the word is not decoration: the form says someone was made strange.

資料裡把這個字解釋為「本來親近的人,變成了陌生人」,並且標明它是動詞 estrange 的過去分詞。所以字裡的 strange(陌生)不是巧合:這個形態說的就是「被變成了陌生人」。

Packet evidence: Wiktionary entry 'estranged' — adj gloss 'Having become a stranger, of one who formerly was close…' (wikt:estranged:adj:0) and verb gloss 'simple past and past participle of estrange' (wikt:estranged:verb:0).

Two branches

人跟人之間斷了線

這一支就是核心畫面本身:關係還在名義上,往來已經停了。

adjective · B2

No longer seeing or speaking to a relative or a close friend, usually after an argument or after years of bad feeling. The two people are still related, or were once close, but the relationship has stopped.

疏遠的;斷絕往來的

人跟事物之間斷了線

線的兩端換了一端:另一頭不再是人,而是一個地方、一個團體或一種信念。斷掉的方式完全一樣——東西還在,歸屬感沒了。

adjective · C1

No longer feeling any connection with a group, a place, a belief or an activity that used to be important in your life.

感到疏離的;失去連結的