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/kənˈtroʊlɪŋ/ · /kənˈtrəʊlɪŋ/
Always trying to make someone do what you want, instead of letting them choose for themselves. You use this word to show that you think it is not a fair way to treat a person.
控制欲強的；愛掌控別人的
核心畫面
Picture one person holding the steering wheel of someone else's life — deciding where they go, who they see, how they spend money — so the other person's own choices keep getting overridden. The word also carries the speaker's judgement: calling someone controlling is saying this is not a fair way to treat a person.
可以想成一個人握著別人生活的方向盤：去哪裡、跟誰見面、錢怎麼花，全都由他決定。對方不是不會選，而是每次一開口就被蓋過…更多收起
可以想成一個人握著別人生活的方向盤：去哪裡、跟誰見面、錢怎麼花，全都由他決定。對方不是不會選，而是每次一開口就被蓋過去。這個字本身帶著說話者的評價——用它就等於在指出：這樣對待一個人並不公平。原始詞典資料4 筆記錄
以下是外部詞典記錄的用法，原文照列，我們還沒有寫成教學內容。上面的說明才是我們自己寫的；有些用法可能上面已經講過了。
controllingadj/kənˈtɹoʊlɪŋ/
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Exerting control over a person or thing.
- His mother is very controlling.
controllingnoun/kənˈtɹoʊlɪŋ/
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The act of exerting control.
- What humble submission presided within; / How free from the reign, and controllings of sin.
資料來源：英文維基詞典 English Wiktionary（CC BY-SA 4.0）。 原文照列，未經改寫。