核心畫面

One way to hold it: a softness that makes everything around it go gentle. Meat that gives way under a knife, a that hurts at a touch, a young plant that bends, a person who handles you carefully — all of them share the same picture of something soft and the light hand it asks for.

一種「不敢用力」的狀態。手放上去的時候會自動放輕——因為對方軟、對方痛、對方還小、對方經不起壓。tenderness更多收起一種「不敢用力」的狀態。手放上去的時候會自動放輕——因為對方軟、對方痛、對方還小、對方經不起壓。tenderness 就是這個「軟」與「因為軟而必須輕」的組合:肉是軟的所以好咬,傷處是軟的所以一碰就痛,年紀還小所以還沒長硬,而人對人的溫柔,也正是同一件事——察覺到對方有柔軟的地方,於是把力道收起來。

Four branches

物體本身柔軟、經不起壓

這一族是核心畫面最實體的一端:東西本身組織鬆軟,所以刀子、牙齒、風雨都能輕易改變它。

tenderness of meat · adjective · C2

The quality of food that makes it easy to cut and eat, especially after it has been cooked well.

身體上一碰就痛

從「軟」延伸到「軟到有反應」:受傷或發炎的部位變得特別敏感,力氣還沒用上,痛已經先來了。

pain when touched · adjective · C2

Pain in a part of your body when it is touched.

壓痛

對人放輕力道的溫柔

把「因為軟所以要輕」搬到人跟人之間:你察覺對方有柔軟、會痛的地方,於是動作、語氣、照顧的方式全都收斂下來。

gentle, loving quality · adjective · C2

A gentle, careful quality that shows love.

溫柔

年紀還小、還沒長硬

把「還沒長出硬度」從植物移到人生階段:年紀輕就是人的柔軟期,經歷還薄、還容易被塑形或傷到。

at the tender age of · adjective · C2

A time of being young or still new to something, used in the phrase at the tender age of.

小小年紀

原始詞典資料4 筆記錄

以下是外部詞典記錄的用法,原文照列,我們還沒有寫成教學內容。上面的說明才是我們自己寫的;有些用法可能上面已經講過了。

tendernessnoun/ˈtɛn.dɚ.nɪs/

  • 1

    Quality, state or condition of being tender.

    • He picked her up in his arms with great tenderness.
  • 2

    A tendency to express warm, compassionate feelings.

    • When the lovers were together, their cold indifference gave way to love and tenderness.
    • I had known him jealous, suspicious; I had seen about him certain tendernesses, fitfulnesses—a softness which came like a warm air, and a ruth which passed like early dew, dried in the heat of his irritabilities: this was all I had seen.
  • 3

    A concern for the feelings or welfare of others.

    • When they saw the poor orphans, they were overwhelmed with tenderness for them.
    • Everybody needs a little tenderness sometimes.
  • 4

    medicinepathologysciencesA pain or discomfort when an affected area is touched.

    • He noted her extreme tenderness when he touched the bruise on her thigh.
    • Amies Oelschlager said in a statement that oral contraceptives that contain estrogen may cause side effects such as headaches, nausea, and breast tenderness.

資料來源:英文維基詞典 English WiktionaryCC BY-SA 4.0)。 原文照列,未經改寫。