核心畫面

You can think of asexual as a word with a hole in it. Sexual names one whole side of life — bodies pairing up, attraction, making young from two parents — and the small piece a- in front says: that side is absent here. What is left over depends on what you are pointing at. Point at a cell, and what is absent is the second parent, so the cell splits and copies itself. Point at a friendship or a picture, and what is absent is desire, so only closeness or plainness is left. Point at a person, and what is absent is the pull of attraction, while the caring and the love stay exactly where they were.

可以想成 asexual 是一個中間挖掉一塊的字。sexual 指的是生命裡「性」的那一面:雌雄配對、吸引、兩個親代更多收起可以想成 asexual 是一個中間挖掉一塊的字。sexual 指的是生命裡「性」的那一面:雌雄配對、吸引、兩個親代生出下一代。前面那個小小的 a- 就是在說:這一塊在這裡不存在。挖掉之後剩下什麼,要看你指的是什麼。指著一個細胞,少掉的是第二個親代,所以它自己分裂、自己複製。指著一段友誼或一張照片,少掉的是情慾,剩下的是親近或素淨。指著一個人,少掉的是那股性方面的吸引力,而在乎和愛都還留在原地。

From the word’s history

The word is built from a- (lacking, without), which came into English from Ancient Greek, plus sexual, which goes back through Latin sexualis to sexus. So the shape of the word is exactly the shape of the meaning: sexual with the a- of absence in front of it.

這個字由 a-(沒有、缺少,經由古希臘文進入英文)加上 sexual(性的,經拉丁文 sexualis 回到 sexus)組成。字的結構就等於意思的結構:在 sexual 前面放上一個表示「缺少」的 a-。

Wiktionary etymology tree supplied in this packet (source_ref kaikki:3f6f69a190036ae4:629462817): Ancient Greek ἀ- > English a-; Latin sexus > sexualis > English sexual > asexual.

Three branches

生物學:不靠性繁殖

把「缺少的那一塊」放在繁殖上:少掉的是第二個親代。這是這個字最早、也最具體的一支。

adjective · B2

Used in biology about a living thing that has no sexual organs, or about a way of making new life that does not involve a male and a female.

無性的

人:不會產生性吸引力

同樣是那塊缺口,但這次放在一個人的感覺上:少掉的是性吸引力,在乎人的能力完全沒有少。這是今天最常聽到的一支。

adjective · B2

Used about a person who does not feel sexual attraction to other people, or who has little or no wish for sex.

無性戀的

事物:沒有性的成分

缺口放在一個東西身上:一段關係、一張圖、一部片裡面沒有情慾的那一面。形容的是事物的調性,不是人的傾向。

adjective · C1

Used about a thing — a friendship, a picture, a story, a mood — that has nothing sexual in it at all.

不帶性意味的