核心畫面

One way to hold this word: picture your family tree with two kinds of line on it. Some lines were drawn at birth; some were drawn at a wedding. A sister-in-law is a woman standing where a sister would stand — same generation as you, close enough to sit at the family table — but the line that put her there is a marriage. The word never says whose wedding it was, so the same three cover your husband's sister, your 's wife, and the woman who married your husband's . That silence is why English speakers so often add one short sentence afterwards to say which line they mean.

可以想成一張家族樹,上面有兩種線:一種是血緣畫的,一種是婚禮畫的。sister-in-law 站的位置就是「姊妹」那更多收起可以想成一張家族樹,上面有兩種線:一種是血緣畫的,一種是婚禮畫的。sister-in-law 站的位置就是「姊妹」那一格,年紀同輩、坐同一桌吃飯,但把她放進去的是一場婚禮。這個字只說「同輩、女性、因婚姻而來」,從來不說是誰的婚禮,所以配偶的姊妹、兄弟的太太、妯娌,全部共用同一個字。中文剛好相反:大姑、小姑、姨子、嫂嫂、弟媳、妯娌,一開口就把線路和輩分標死了。所以學這個字的重點,是習慣英文的作法——先用 sister-in-law 把人歸位,再補一句說明是哪一條線。

From the word’s history

Middle English suster-in-lawe: sister plus -in-law, literally a sister by law rather than by birth. The -in-law half is exactly what the modern core image keeps: the line on the family tree was drawn by a marriage.

中古英文寫作 suster-in-lawe,就是 sister 加上 -in-law,字面上是「法律上的姊妹」。今天的核心畫面留下的正是 -in-law 這半邊:家族樹上那條線是婚禮畫的,不是血緣畫的。同一組還有 mother-in-law、daughter-in-law。

Wiktionary, entry 'sister-in-law' (kaikki:3f6f69a190036ae4:115955229:137101): 'Inherited from Middle English suster-in-lawe; equivalent to sister + -in-law.'

Two branches

隔一場婚禮:最常見的兩條線

家族樹上只要畫一條婚姻線,這個女生就到位了:不是你結婚把她帶進來,就是你兄弟結婚把她帶進來。日常說 sister-in-law,多半是這兩種。

noun · B2

The sister of the person you are married to. Your husband's sister, or your wife's sister, is your sister-in-law.

大姑/小姑/姨子

隔兩場婚禮:妯娌

同一張家族樹,只是要走兩條婚姻線才接得上:你嫁進一個家,她也嫁進同一個家。位置還是同輩女性,所以英文沒有換字。

noun · B2

The woman who is married to your husband's brother or your wife's brother. When two women marry two brothers, each one is the other's sister-in-law.

妯娌