Describes a person, or a way of listening, that does not decide someone is bad or stupid or wrong for what they have done. A non-judgmental friend is one you can tell an embarrassing thing to and watch their face stay soft.

Describes形容 a person, or a way of listening一個人，或一種聽人說話的方式 that不會 does not decide someone is bad or stupid or wrong因為某人做了什麼事 for what they have done就斷定他很壞、很笨或不對 A non-judgmental friend一個non-judgmental的朋友 is one就是 you你 can tell an embarrassing thing to可以跟他說一件尷尬的事 and而 watch their face stay soft看著他的表情還是很柔和的那種朋友

The word comes out of counselling and social work, and it has spread into ordinary speech about relationships and parenting. It usually describes an attitude in listening: "a non-judgmental atmosphere", "she listened in a non-judgmental way", "I'm not judging you, I promise". It is warm and approving — calling someone non-judgmental is a compliment.

The word這個字 comes out of counselling and social work來自諮商和社工領域 and而且 it它 has spread into ordinary speech about relationships and parenting已經傳到談感情和教養的日常用語裡 It它 usually describes an attitude in listening通常是形容聽人說話時的一種態度 “a non-judgmental atmosphere”, “she listened in a non-judgmental way”, “I'm not judging you, I promise”像“a non-judgmental atmosphere”、“she listened in a non-judgmental way”、“I'm not judging you, I promise”這樣 It它 is warm and approving是溫暖、正面的字 calling someone non-judgmental說一個人non-judgmental is a compliment是一種稱讚

Here is where people get it wrong, and it matters. Non-judgmental does not mean having no opinions, and it does not mean thinking everything is equally fine. A good counsellor may privately think a client's choice was a disaster; what makes them non-judgmental is that they do not push that at the person, and they do not treat the person as worth less because of it. The judgement being switched off is the judgement of the PERSON, not the ability to think clearly about the action.

Here這裡 is where people get it wrong就是大家容易搞錯的地方 and而 it matters這點很重要 Non-judgmental non-judgmental does not mean having no opinions不代表沒有意見 and而且 it它 does not mean thinking everything is equally fine也不代表覺得什麼都一樣好 A good counsellor一個好的諮商師 may privately think a client's choice was a disaster私底下可能覺得個案的選擇糟透了 what讓他們算是non-judgmental的 makes them non-judgmental (合併) is that是因為 they他們 do not push that at the person不會把這個想法加在對方身上 and而且 they他們 do not treat the person as worth less because of it不會因此就把這個人看低 The judgement being switched off被關掉的那個判斷 is the judgement of the PERSON是對「人」的判斷 not the ability to think clearly about the action不是清楚思考這個行為本身的能力

Spelled non-judgmental or non-judgemental — both are accepted, the -e- form more British. The hyphen is usual; "nonjudgmental" is common in American writing.

Spelled拼法可以是 non-judgmental or non-judgemental non-judgmental或non-judgemental both are accepted兩種都可以 the -e- form多了e的那種寫法 more British比較英式 The hyphen連字號 is usual通常會加 “nonjudgmental”“nonjudgmental” is common in American writing在美式寫法裡很常見