Womanliness is the quality of behaving, dressing, or looking in the way people traditionally think suits a grown woman — gentle, warm, graceful, caring, quietly strong. It is the noun form of womanly, so you use it when you want to name the quality itself rather than describe a person: "her quiet womanliness", "there was a warmth and womanliness about her". It is meant as praise, but it is praise of an old-fashioned kind, because it praises a woman for matching a picture that society drew long ago. For that reason many people today find it uncomfortable, and a writer who uses it usually knows they are choosing a warm, gentle, slightly dated word. It is formal and literary; you will read it far more often than you will hear it. One more thing worth noticing: womanly and womanliness are about being a grown woman, an adult, as opposed to a girl. So the word often carries a sense of maturity and calm, not just softness.

女人味、女性特質（傳統上認為女性該有的溫柔優雅氣質）