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    A slightly mocking word for anything that puts feelings first — talking about emotions, hugging, sharing personal things — when the speaker thinks facts, plans or results should come first. You hear it most about workplace training, management styles, therapy, and modern schooling: "a touchy-feely team-building day", "the new boss is very touchy-feely".

    A slightly mocking word for anything that puts feelings first一個帶點嘲諷意味的字,用來形容任何把感受擺第一的東西 — talking about emotions, hugging, sharing personal things講情緒、擁抱、分享私事 — when the speaker thinks facts, plans or results should come first而說話的人心裡覺得事實、計畫或結果才應該擺第一。You你 hear it most about workplace training, management styles, therapy, and modern schooling最常在職場訓練、管理風格、心理治療和現代教育裡聽到它: "a touchy-feely team-building day"「a touchy-feely team-building day」(很重感受的團建日), "the new boss is very touchy-feely"「the new boss is very touchy-feely」(新老闆很重感情)。

    The picture inside the word is literal: people touching each other, holding hands, putting a hand on your shoulder — and for many English speakers, especially older ones and especially British ones, that closeness is uncomfortable, so the word carries a small wince. It is almost always negative, though not cruel; it says "this is soft, and a bit " rather than "this is evil".

    The picture inside the word is literal這個字裡的畫面很寫實: people touching each other, holding hands, putting a hand on your shoulder人跟人互相碰觸、牽手、拍拍你的肩膀 — and for many English speakers, especially older ones and especially British ones對很多英語使用者來說,尤其是年紀比較大的、尤其是英國人, that closeness is uncomfortable這種親近感會讓人不自在, so the word carries a small wince所以這個字帶著一點皺眉的感覺。It它 is almost always mildly negative幾乎都是輕微的負面, though not cruel但不到刻薄; it says "this is soft, and a bit embarrassing" rather than "this is evil"它想說的是「這有點軟、有點尷尬」,而不是「這很糟糕」。

    A few people now use it with no sting at all, or even — "I'm quite a touchy-feely person" said about someone who hugs friends easily — and younger speakers, who are more comfortable with emotion talk, use it that way more often. So listen to the tone.

    A few people now use it with no sting at all現在也有些人用它完全沒有刺, or even warmly甚至是溫暖的用法 — "I'm quite a touchy-feely person"「I'm quite a touchy-feely person」(我算是滿重感情的人) said about someone who hugs friends easily用來形容那種很容易跟朋友擁抱的人 — and younger speakers, who are more comfortable with emotion talk比較習慣談論情緒的年輕人, use it that way more often更常這樣用。So listen to the tone所以要聽語氣。

    It stays informal; you would not write it in a report unless you were being sarcastic about one.

    It它 stays informal一直都是口語用詞; you would not write it in a report你不會把它寫進報告裡 unless you were being sarcastic about one除非你是故意要諷刺什麼。

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組成Two ordinary verbs joined and used as an adjective: touchy + feely. Note the trick — touchy on its own means 'easily offended', but here it is built fresh from touch, so the pair simply means 'touching and feeling'. The -y ending turns each verb into 'given to doing this'. Formed in American English in the 1960s-70s, out of the encounter-group and human-potential movement of that time.

同家族的字

  • touchthe verb 'touchy-feely' is built from — to put your hand on something
  • feelthe verb behind 'feely', both the hand sense and the emotion sense
  • touchysame shape, but a separate word meaning 'easily upset'

原始詞典資料4 筆記錄

以下是外部詞典記錄的用法,原文照列,我們還沒有寫成教學內容。上面的說明才是我們自己寫的;有些用法可能上面已經講過了。

touchy-feelyadj

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    informalHaving a fondness for physical contact with other people, especially to an excessive degree.

    • My last boyfriend was a lovely guy, but I dumped him because he was too touchy-feely with me in public.
    • Kühnel’s wife, Berta, began by asking everyone to join hands. […] When I asked her later what she made of the exercise, Hellar told me: “First of all, I’m not a good-feelings, touchy-feely kind of person.”
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    derogatoryDriven by intuition or emotion, with a connotation of de-emphasis of rational thought or logic.

    • He preferred the clarity of science and left the touchy-feely stuff to others.
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    derogatoryAppealing to emotion, sympathy, or romance.

    • I think the movie had too much touchy-feely nonsense and not enough action.

touchy-feelynoun

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    Physical contact, typically sexual, and usually inappropriate or unwanted.

    • Why is it that, when straight men are touched, it is an affront worthy of outrage and police investigation, yet a woman's being the subject of a bar-wide game of touchy-feely is par for the course?
    • When I was wrestling, females were just appearing on the scene. I loved my coach's position. "If they want to wrestle with the boys, sure, I will put our wrestlers on the mat for some touchy feely. (Paraphrased, but not by much)

資料來源:英文維基詞典 English WiktionaryCC BY-SA 4.0)。 原文照列,未經改寫。