Someone who feels put-upon thinks other people are treating them unfairly by expecting them to do too much. The jobs collect on their desk. The favours are not really asked; they are assumed.

Someone who feels put-upon一個覺得 put-upon 的人 thinks認為 other people別人 by expecting them to do too much用「什麼都指望他做」的方式 are treating them unfairly在不公平地對待他。The jobs工作 on their desk在他桌上 collect越積越多。The favours那些幫忙 are not really asked不是真的有人開口請； they are assumed而是被當成理所當然。

A put-upon parent is the one who always drives. A put-upon colleague is the one who stays because nobody else will. The word is an adjective, a little old, and a little sorry for that person.

A put-upon parent一位 put-upon 的家長 is是 the one who always drives總是負責開車的那一個。A put-upon colleague一位 put-upon 的同事 is是 because nobody else will因為沒有別人肯留 the one who stays而留下來的那一個。The word這個字 is an adjective是形容詞， a little old有點舊， and a little sorry for that person也帶點替那個人心疼的味道。

Though actually, it is not a word for being busy. Plenty of busy people chose the work. Put-upon is about the unfairness of the asking, and about the feeling that your yes is being used.

Though actually不過其實， it它 is not a word for being busy不是說「忙」的字。Plenty of busy people很多忙碌的人 chose the work是自己選了那些工作。Put-upon is about說的是 the asking這些要求 the unfairness of的不公平， and about也說的是 your yes你的那聲「好」 is being used被人利用 the feeling that的那種感覺。

You will often meet it after feel: I felt put-upon. You can also put it before a noun: a put-upon sigh.

You你 will often meet it常會遇到它 after feel跟在 feel 後面： I felt put-upon。You你 can also也可以 put it把它放 before a noun在名詞前面： a put-upon sigh。