One of the dirtiest insults in English. It names a man by a sex act in order to put him down hard.

One of the dirtiest insults in English英文裡最髒的侮辱之一。It names a man by a sex act它用一個性行為來稱呼一個男人，in order to put him down hard目的是要狠狠貶低他。

Do not say it, write it as a joke, or try it to sound tough — people may think you want a fight, or they may freeze in shock. It is mainly American, mainly aimed at men, and much heavier than idiot or jerk.

Do not say it, write it as a joke, or try it to sound tough不要說這個字、不要開玩笑寫、也不要想靠它裝狠——people may think you want a fight別人可能會以為你想打架，or they may freeze in shock或是被嚇到愣住。It is mainly American這主要是美式用語，mainly aimed at men主要是罵男人的，and much heavier than idiot or jerk而且比idiot笨蛋或jerk混蛋重很多。

Some people throw it around as a loose “I hate you,” barely thinking of the sex meaning; that does not make it safe. It has often been used to shame a man as not “man enough,” including cruel talk about men who love men.

Some people throw it around as a loose "I hate you,"有些人會很隨便地把它當成一句鬆散的「我恨你」在用，barely thinking of the sex meaning根本沒想到那個性方面的意思——that does not make it safe但這不代表它就安全。It has often been used to shame a man as not "man enough,"它常常被用來羞辱一個男人「不夠man」，including cruel talk about men who love men包括拿來殘忍地講喜歡男人的男人。

Even among friends it belongs only in the roughest rooms, and it can still explode.

Even among friends就算是朋友之間，it belongs only in the roughest rooms它也只適合出現在最粗魯的場合，and it can still explode而且還是可能一講就炸。